I'm not sure if this is a male or a female. I was reading online and comparing pictures, and I think it's most likely that it's male because of the "ball and stick". I attached a picture also. I just want to know for sure, because if it is male, I need to separate it from my three other girls before he pollinates them. He's already pretty big though... Are males just a waste of space, or can they be smoked/cooked at all?