Best way to get someone out of my mind

**HolditIn413** · Apr-19-2012, 21:25

Any suggestions. Staying Busy aint working. Idle time is the worst...

**jiggsaw** · Apr-19-2012, 22:53

Go running or ride a bike.
Find a hot girl to talk to.
Use the internet to troll people on youtube.
Troll Yahoo answers.
Drink some beers.
Learn how to do something in a community class.
Talk to an old person and think how it must feel to be about to die. Then you'll realize not to waste time.
Train to mma fight or box.
Play with a dog any random dog.
Go to petco and look at animals.

**Kalidank1** · May-03-2012, 22:35

Just don't think about that person it is all in your head

**Derrail32** · May-04-2012, 01:58

It depends on why you are constantly thinking about the person. Did the person leave you with some advice about yourself? And you're unable to adapt or adopt the advice or even compromise. Do you feel cheated? Are you in fact the person she said you are? Sometimes we yoke up with the wrong people and when we do it scars us severely. There is a woman in my past that wrecked havoc on my life even to this day and I'm married. Sadly, I haven't been with the woman in over ten years and I'm still suffering from the relationship. I was 18 and thought it was cool dating an older woman. But as God started to shape me into a man and showed me reality, I saw the errors of my ways. To this day I'm still suffering from dating a 24 year old chick! So depending on your situation lighten the possibilities and weigh it against reality. Is it really worth you thinking about it? And if so, will it lead you to do something more that you'll regret later As in my case? But to answer your question directly what I do is weigh my options I think what will benefit my family and myself later on then I decide. I suggest you weigh your options. What is the best scenario for you? then decide. And whatever that outcome is gravitate towards it. This is how I deal with the past evil and older chick of my youth. Also money is a big factor to consider when dealing with women. You can't get around it especially if it's a poor chick its hopeless. You gotta deal with her complaints and why she is complaining and depending on your age you may not understand the seriousness of the womans issues as in my case. A desperate woman will learn law and lay in wait for a know nothing man to come around so she can entrap him like in my case. And depending on what your problem is it just may not be worth continuing to contemplate what you should or should not do. As in my case I was to young to understand the relationship and the woman and her problems and the people she held responsible for her problems. And when chance revealed itself she poured it all on me and took it all out on me even to this day! Sorry for such a long post but this is my suggestions peace.

**biggmoneyme** · Jun-03-2012, 21:31

easy
stop thinking
it's effortless

**BlazinKush** · Jun-16-2012, 02:39

If its a woman you trying to stop thinking about. Try finding another chick for just sex. Believe me, it helps.

**nugatronica** · Jun-18-2012, 08:00

Find someone else to occupy your mind!

**akillerwombat** · Jun-18-2012, 09:45

Exercise is hands down the best way. In reality, nothing will 'get someone out of your mind' if they hold any significance to you. But if you work out you promote healthy brain activity combined with positive physical results and that combination will make you feel better about yourself. And when you're on that feel good kick its much easier to deal with thoughts of things you've left behind.

I also like to look at it as when you were with this person, you are not in as good of a physical and mental state as you were now. So now instead of just missing them, you can compare it to how much better you are now than you were then. Long story short, sucks trying to forget someone. Just gotta keep that head in a positive space and know that in time the feeling fades. Good luck with it.

**RedLocks** · Jun-19-2012, 20:00

kill em and eat em, now they're in your belly!

**Up In Smoke 420** · Jun-20-2012, 02:37

I find being around friends helps the most. Also exercising, and meditating help a lot too. Really getting wrapped up in any particular hobby you enjoy will take a load off your mind.